Speak the Truth in Love

One of the favorite sayings of one of my former pastors was, “Always speak the truth in love.” That has stuck with me through the years. At some point in our lives, we have all experienced the pain of hurtful words. Whether the words spoken were intentional or not, they were still painful. From a school bully to a jealous coworker, ugly words can make a lasting impact.

While we’d like for those that hurt us to be held accountable for their words, we must remember we are responsible for every word we speak. James said the tongue is a fire we must tame (James 3:6). Like a fire raging out of control, our words can cause irreparable damage.

Jesus said what’s in our heart comes out of our mouth (Luke 6:46). Often people say things without giving thought to what their words mean or the impact they have on the heart of the one they are speaking to.

It’s all about the heart, ours and God’s. Created in God’s image, our purpose is to share His love with others. Our words should encourage, inspire, uplift and bring joy. Sometimes it’s necessary to say hard things, but we are to speak the truth in love to others (Ephesians 4:15).

Let us be a church filled with people who choose our words wisely. Lord, please help me to lead by example, and convict me when I speak unlovingly to others. May we all commit to developing the habit of carefully considering what needs to be said. Speak from the heart with the love of God always.

Your servant in Christ, Phillip